Zine Review: How I came to love myself and sometimes other men

How I came to love myself and sometimes other men, a zine authored by Dave of Black Carrot, argues for something like this: forget binary sex rules, change the terminology to degrees of openness and sex isn't about genitals alone. He describes his "coming out" process which for Dave was more aabout getting comfortabe with his own need rather than the typical "how will my friends take it" coming out. Its a sexy little zine available through Stranger Danger Distro. I think it cost a buck plus postage.